If you have an etiquette question related to any event or gathering you plan to sponsor, send us your question. We usually can tell you want is trending and what the classic standard is based on years of experience. Keep in mind that there are not hard and fast rules. A lot depends on if you like to be a trendsetter or stay with the classics. Either way, we will reply to your questions. We are not counselors; we will give you an opinion that you can take or leave without offense to anyone. Etiquette varies by occasion, location, style, comfort level, so forth. What works for one, may not work for another. We do not get into personal or family matters. Our area as expertise is related to stationery, weddings, parties, celebrations, holidays, birthdays, anniversaries, and baby.